You’re Not the Answer (And That’s a Good Thing!)
Okay, let’s get real for a second: You are not the answer to your client’s problems. I know, I know… shocking, right? But hang with me. As healers, coaches, mentors, or practitioners, we might be tempted to swoop in and fix everything like some kind of magical guru. (I mean, we have our moments, right?) But the truth is, it’s not our job to be the answer—it’s our job to guide our clients to the answers already within them.
We’re here to empower, not rescue. Picture yourself as the wise, patient GPS. You’re not the destination, but you help your client find their way. You might gently whisper (or shout, depending on the day), "Rerouting!" when they veer off course, but ultimately, they’re the ones driving the car. You’re the guide, not the fixer.
It’s like giving someone a fish versus teaching them how to fish. Sure, you could hand over the fish (yay, instant results!), but what happens when they’re hungry again tomorrow? Instead, we’re here to hand them the fishing pole, teach them the technique, and maybe throw in a joke or two about how not to get the line tangled.
The best part? When your clients realize they’ve had the power all along, they become unstoppable. And as much as we might enjoy being the “go-to” for all the answers, there’s something way more rewarding in watching someone step into their own power. That’s when real transformation happens.
So, next time you’re feeling the pressure to have all the answers (because, let’s be honest, we’ve all been there), remind yourself: You are the guide. They have the answers. And that’s exactly how it should be.
